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It Helps to Be Able to Improvise
Sometimes, the best way through is to make it up as you go along.
When I began to learn melee combat in medieval fencing, a key phrase always stuck with me. No plan survives contact with the enemy. And it’s true. The “enemy”, be it a physical opponent or an intangible like Resistance, is unpredictable. You can’t and don’t know what they’ll do, how they’ll do it, or much of anything, really.
Part of this is because you are the only one inside your head, heart, and soul. But guess what? This is true for everyone. He’s the only one in his head, heart, and soul; she’s the only one in her head, heart, and soul; they’re the only one in their head, heart, and soul; and so on.
Just because the “enemy” has done the same thing 9 times in a row, the tenth time might be different. You expect a zag, they zig, and your plan goes straight to hell.
This can, will, and does happen all the time. That’s because, apart from what’s happening in your head, heart, and soul, you can do nothing for anyone or anything else. The weather, air pressure, attitude, and intent of this, that, or the other thing is unknown.
This truth makes some people crazy. Especially people who are thorough planners. What do you do? What can you do?
