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Major Positivity Comes From Recognizing When You Need to Change
But as always, it’s a choice of approach and direction for you to make.
The other day, I came to a stark realization. I needed to actively change.
This was a matter of looking at all the ways my life has changed since the pandemic — and frankly, all the ways that it hasn’t changed.
As I looked at the elements that are my life as it currently is, I saw with stark clarity how I haven’t chosen to change.
Because this is the level of change where I am wholly in control. This is a shift in how I approach certain things in my life, and whether I actively work on this or passively float along — and then start wondering why I feel like I’m stuck.
The answer is simple, but the questions to reach it are not.
Bluntly — I’ve formed a comfort zone, a place of stability, where and how I like my life to sit. Or rather, where and how I liked my life sitting a couple of years ago.
I knew it shifted, and I appreciate the changes that have occurred. What I failed to notice, however, are the ways that I haven’t changed in the process.
Let me explain what I’m writing about here.
