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You Can Learn a Lot by Watching and Listening

Sometimes it’s in your best interest not to speak, but just to observe.

Murray "MJ" Blehart
5 min readMay 20, 2020

There is a particular topic I have been working with for many years now. I’ve had a great deal of time, practice, and experience, and I think I have developed some knowledge along the way.

I know I am not the only one with knowledge and experience on this topic. However, because of the length of time I have been working with this, my age, and some other factors, my experience has become less relevant to the current leadership.

This gets frustrating. I feel like no matter what I say my knowledge bears far less relevance than once it did.

So what do I do? Keep talking and get frustrated because of how people are reacting and not reacting to me? Or keep quiet, keep watching and listening?

That’s a judgment call that only I can make. But over the years I have found that there is a great deal of value in just watching and listening.

You learn a lot from watching and listening in silence

When there is a topic on hand which I have some knowledge in — I tend to have opinions. While I have spent a great deal of my life as a jack-of-all-trades, I have within those a…

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Murray "MJ" Blehart
Murray "MJ" Blehart

Written by Murray "MJ" Blehart

I explore mindfulness, positivity, philosophy, & conscious reality creation. I love to help & inspire. Also, I write sci-fi/fantasy. http://mjblehart.com

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