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Your Choices and Decisions Are Everything

Your life is made up of the choices and decisions you do and don’t make.

Murray "MJ" Blehart
6 min read4 days ago
Surfers on a beach debating the waves. Your choices and decisions are everything.
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No matter what anyone else tells you, you have the ultimate decision-making power for your life. Nobody else can make you be anyone you don’t desire to be.

However, there are circumstances that will interfere. All of them are outside of you. For example, given the current political climate in the USA, you might be enby and unable to be your true self at work. You might be trans and find yourself constantly on guard for the misinformed and worried about people questioning your bathroom use choices. Like me, you might recognize that being “woke” is a hell of a lot better than being asleep and unaware, even when it’s mistakenly treated like something bad.

However, in your head, heart, and soul, you are the one who chooses and decides who, what, where, how, and why you are. While that might currently come with unwanted limitations, ultimately, you choose and decide for yourself and your life.

When all is said and done, your choices and decisions are everything.

“They” have only as much control as you give them

Right now, a loud, well-funded minority is doing their damnedest to tear society apart…

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Murray "MJ" Blehart
Murray "MJ" Blehart

Written by Murray "MJ" Blehart

I explore mindfulness, positivity, philosophy, & conscious reality creation. I love to help & inspire. Also, I write sci-fi/fantasy. http://mjblehart.com

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