You’re Not a Bad Person and Nobody Hates You
Unless you intentionally withhold kindness, compassion, empathy, and hurt/harm others.
Everybody has their own beliefs, values, and habits. No two people think absolutely, perfectly alike, or in sync. Opinions are like assholes, so everybody has one (unlike assholes they frequently have more than one).
Concepts of good and bad are fluid and ever-evolving. Today’s good guy is tomorrow’s villain and vice versa. People change. The pendulum swings in both directions.
It’s very easy to get caught up in all the hype, anger, and especially the fear. Various leaders, so-called leaders, demagogues, celebrities, and the like will pull you in every direction you can imagine, and likely some you can’t. It’s mind-boggling, really.
Do you sometimes think you’re a bad person or that everybody hates you because of your beliefs and values? If so, then I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that you’re not a bad person and nobody hates you.
How do I know this?
If you question the impression you’re making on others, question how they feel about you, and care about what that looks like? Then you’re not a bad person and nobody hates you for your beliefs and values.